A Quiz Almost as Accurate as the Hogwarts Sorting Hat


Is anyone else addicted to quizzes on Buzzfeed? Does it make a difference that I know what Disney Princess would be my best friend or what house colors I’d be wearing at Hogwarts? The answer is no, not at all (although I’m tempted to say yes to the last one). I think part of what makes us love those quizzes on Buzzfeed is that it’s a way to learn more about ourselves in a very casual, fun way.

In college I had a professor that made our class take a free personality test online. Out of the many classes I’ve taken, that was probably one of my favorites because it’s one of the few times I’ve felt that I’d actually take this lesson with me. The exact opposite from the way I felt when I had to learn how to map the ocean floor as a PR major.

So, I want to share this wealth with you…the wealth of emotional health!

This website – 16Personalities – gives users a free online quiz that takes only a few minutes, full of seemingly random questions. After completion, the quiz assigns you a personality coded by a descriptor title and 4 letters of the alphabet that all have a certain significance to your personality. You then can read an in-depth analysis of your personality including strengths, weaknesses, how you handle romantic relationships and more.

Life is basically you living through the good and the bad, and what matters is what you learn from those times and how you decide to handle them. This is where the personality test comes in. When you learn how you relate to the world, your strengths, your weaknesses and how you can make a difference for the people around you it only makes you more prepared for whatever life throws at you.

Take some time for yourself today!

– Paige (aka INFJ, The Advocate)



Life’s Not About Being Perfect; It’s About Recovering from your Mistakes with Grace

(& other assorted inspirational phrases)

Simply put, life is hard. It’s been a slow and emotionally trying road, but I’ve finally come to terms with the fact that you can’t kick butt 100% of the time. Very closely mirroring the very industry in which I work, life ebbs…and life flows. But most importantly, life goes ON. To get my mind right on an “ebb day,” there are a few inspirational phrases (to which I’ve added a Shaina twist) that I regularly consult to put me back in a “flow” state of mind. Let’s explore, shall we?


  1. Go Your Own Way

If this sounds familiar, we should probably hang out more. But in all seriousness, YES, I maaaaay have borrowed this from the legendary Fleetwood Mac. As a reward for calling me out, you will now have this snazzy little number stuck in your head for the rest of the day. You’re welcome. Anyway…I of course redefined this little four-word phrase & I so strongly align with its new meaning that I ACTUALLY had it tattooed on my body: “As long as you’re happy with the path you’ve chosen, you’ll always be moving in the right direction.”

When in doubt, just ask yourself: Are you happy? If the answer is “yes,” you’ll be alright, kid.

  1. Life’s Not About Being Perfect; It’s About Recovering from your Mistakes with Grace

Inspired by a nifty little typo in a Complex tweet, this Shaina Signature quote has become one of my sure favorites. We’re so used to hearing “practice makes perfect” and that we should strive for perfection, but a smooth sea never made a skillful sailor. Mistakes happen. An occasional “whoopsie” is HEALTHY, as long as you learn from it and you recover gracefully. Do not, I repeat, DO NOT have a meltdown! Take a deep breath, assess the situation, and make that “whoopsie” look like it was part of your plan all along. Recover with grace, you beautiful creature.

  1. You Are Everything

Some days start with a burnt bagel and 45 minutes of traffic, only to be followed up by 8 hours of alternating inability to write the perfect caption and creating graphics that even my dog would laugh at. On those days, I call on THIS gem: YOU ARE EVERYTHING. It’s your classic “find a mirror, look yourself in the eye, and pep talk until you’re blue in the face.”

MAYBE toasters aren’t my strong suit, but guess what? There are microwaves, ovens, and if all else fails…Lunchables.

Turn that frown upside down, honey. There’s life to be lived, work to get done, and fun to be had.

Submitted by Shaina Chambers

3 Indoor Spots To Try This Summer

No one in the history of mankind has ever called me “outdoorsy”. I am in no way a hiking boots, knee-deep in dirt, grab the fish by your bare hands kind of girl. I don’t even know if that’s how you actually catch a fish. If it’s more than 90 degrees outside you can find me indoors. If it’s less than 50 degrees outside, you can find me indoors. If wind speeds are over 5 mph, you can catch me indoors. If the clouds look like they may be up to no good…well, you know where to find me. As you can imagine, Vegas weather doesn’t exactly allow me to get out much. The unpredictable hot and cold weather combined with butterflies, pigeons, ants and all other sorts of creepy crawlies usually keep me from exploring places like Red Rock and…I can’t even think of another outdoor place to go because I don’t outdoor. That being said, if you’re anything like me, this is the worst city to be in during the summer. While others complain but make the best of the heat, we’re trapped inside relying on businesses with strong air conditioning or restaurants that don’t charge for a water cup to get us through these hot summer months. To remedy this, I’ve compiled a list of the three best indoors spots in town, in my opinion, from someone who spends much of her time inside. To keep things fair, I’ve created a ratings system with four scoring categories all ranging from 1 (lowest) to 10 (highest).

1. John’s Incredible Pizza Company

While I’ve listed these in no particular order, it is likely no surprise to my coworkers that John’s Incredible Pizza is listed first. I am known around here for being quite the pizza enthusiast. So that’s my first reason for suggesting this place. The food is pretty great, as they make their dough and sauces from scratch but it’s not necessarily the pizza that keeps me coming back during the summer. The seller at John’s is that they’re an all-you-can-eat buffet and they boast a pretty large arcade area. They’ve got salad, breadsticks, pizza, pasta and dessert on the buffet as well as endless sodas, icees and a bar for the adults. This means, that you can eat until your heart is content, play games, and then eat a little more.  I can easily spend 3 or 4 hours at John’s and if you time it right, you can avoid the hottest part of the day. If you’re a Dave & Buster’s fan on a budget, I’d highly recommend this place.

Food – 9.0

Drinks – 9.0

Air Conditioning – 8.0

Fun Factor – 9.5

2. DISCOVERY Children’s Museum

It is without any shame that I add this to my list. I recently discovered that Nevada had a children’s museum and I’ve been there at least once a month since. Unlike some museums that require that you look but don’t touch, DISCOVERY is completely hands on. From top to bottom, there’s something for everyone. Every activity is a learning experience from the miniature Eco-City where you can work a job, earn a paycheck and learn how to balance your budget all the way to the murder mystery you’re asked to solve in their Solve It! exhibit. There’s no shortage of things to do there, even if you go with a group of friends and no children. There’s even a Rachel’s Kitchen across the street so you can eat and then return for more fun. Although I can imagine it’d be great to see DISCOVERY through a child’s eyes, don’t let the name fool you. This 20 something still learns something new every time.

Food – 7.0

Drinks – 7.0

Air Conditioning – 9.5

Fun Factor – 9.0








3. King Putt/Battle Blast Laser Tag

While it’s certainly kid-friendly, if you’re thinking of heading here, I recommend either leaving the kids at home or holding off on having them because Battle Blast Laser Tag is a two-story arena and children will only slow you down. This is not for the faint of heart or for those just looking to try laser tag for the first time. Serious competitors only please. With 5,800 sq. ft. of space, you discover new hiding spots every time you play. My personal suggestion is to grab an all-you-can-play wristband for just $20 or a membership if you plan to come regularly. You’ll leave the arena sweating so hard you’ll think you just completed a Tough Mudder but that’s anticipated which is why they crank up the air conditioning! There’s a snack bar to keep you energized (don’t leave without funnel cake fries) but save your appetite for the sushi you’ve definitely earned afterwards.  This place is great for those looking for a high-energy activity that burns calories but doesn’t leave sunburns.

Food – 9.0

Drinks – 7.0

Air Conditioning – 10.0

Fun Factor – 9.5






~Submitted by Ashley Roberts


A quick bit of context for what you’re about to read:

There’s no such thing as a typical work day in the PR field. With such a fast-paced and exciting job, finding the best way to wind down after work is very important. For me, watching a good movie is the best way to relax and enjoy myself after a busy day at work. Choosing a movie is no mindless task, however, because I take into account what mood I’m in, what mood I want to be in and how engaged I need to be by the movie (sometimes you just need background noise for a good nap). With that said, please read on to find the best movies to watch when you’re…

HAPPY: When I get home from work in a good mood I can’t help but dance. When you feel like that, is there a better movie to watch than Dirty Dancing? The answer is no. Dirty Dancing is the best movie to watch when you feel like dancing. Even better – keep the happiness flowing by joining Patrick Swayze and Jennifer Grey for the grand finale dance.   

IN NEED OF MOTIVATION: You’re never too old to enjoy a Disney movie. I recently saw Moana and it totally surpassed my expectations. Throughout the movie, Moana faces many obstacles but never quits on her journey. At the end, she learns that the keys to her success were within her all along. It may sound cheesy, but that lesson and the great soundtrack had me feeling pumped up after! It’s a great movie to watch if you need a little motivation in any aspect.

SAD: Every now and then you need to let go with a good tear-jerker. If you need to shed a few cathartic tears, I would recommend A Monster Calls. The title may sound a little scary, but I promise it’s not.

WATCHING WITH THE FAMILY: I can’t think of a movie my family quoted more when I was growing up than The Princess Bride. There are so many great one-liners, imaginative scenes and a good amount of adult humor, this movie is great for when you’re spending time with family.

LOOKING FOR A VACATION IN YOUR LIVING ROOM: Warning: I’m about to go full nerd on you here. If you need a break from reality, you simply can’t go wrong with any of the Lord of the Rings trilogy. As Bilbo Baggins once said, “It’s a dangerous business, Frodo, going out of your door…if you don’t keep your feet, there is no knowing where you might be swept off to.” So it’s best to stay on the couch and let Frodo do the dangerous adventuring for you!

~Submitted by Jesse Williams

If you’re a publicist, why aren’t you getting these daily newsletters to your inbox?

Ever since I can remember, I have always been interested in the news, which is probably why I became a publicist in the first place. I can remember as a young girl staying up late watching the nightly broadcast with my Dad and becoming infatuated with knowing all I could about the world around me.

As I’ve grown, my life has been consumed with a full time career and personal life. It’s a lot harder to keep up. As a publicist, we are SO immersed in the news each and every day for our own clients that sometimes we get a little tunnel vision and miss the big picture stories. We’re so busy with crafting this pitch and distributing that release, many times we forget to ‘stop and smell the roses’ so to speak.

For my generation –the beloved millennial – we have found unique, faster ways to get our news and info. The World Wide Web helps of course, but we need strictly just the highlights. Not to say that our attention span is shorter, but we certainly like info instantly, concise and in the least confusing way as possible.

For me, I love a good newsletter, especially when it’s sent directly to my inbox. Here are my top 5 email newsletters I subscribe to as a ways to keep up with the times:


  • theSkimm
  • This has to be one of my favorite newsletters. I read it religiously EVERY morning. A good friend of mine in the PR world introduced me, and I’ll never turn back. I hate to say it this way, but theSkimm certainly ‘dumbs down’ the news so it’s a lot easier for people like me to understand. All that political jargon can get confusing, but that doesn’t mean you should ignore it. TheSkimm covers everything, from who won the Big Game to what bill was recently signed, so there’s something for everyone. They email you once every morning, Monday through Friday, and tell you all the highlights you missed (you know, because you’ve been in client meetings all day). Plus, it makes you sound super smart around the water cooler at work. Win-win!


  • Need 2 Know
  • Another great daily newsletter that is sent straight to your inbox! It literally highlights the top 10ish stories (I say that because sometimes there are more than 10) that you absolutely need to know that happened that day. It gives you the bullet points, while of course, sneaking in some snarky posts with a side of sass. I love myself a good zinger and if you do, too., then this is the newsletter for you.


  • NextDraft
  • Created and written by Dave Pell, who encourages you to follow him on Twitter as soon as you sign up, NextDraft gives you a daily dose of all most interesting content that has hit the web that day. Another ‘top ten’ kind of deal, his emails are minimal, so they keep you engaged while giving you all the facts you need to know. He even includes a share buttons throughout his stories, so you can Tweet and post on FB all day long showing all your followers and friends how intelligent you really are. What more could you want?


  • PR Couture
  • For my days as a fashion publicist, this is one of my favorite weekly newsletters. They offer helpful and useful insider tips and tricks for publicists in the fashion world and publish other insightful industry related news. At the end of the workweek, they give you Fashion Fridays, like this one, that gives you all highlights of fashion, tech, PR and social media. This newsletter certainly satisfies my inner fashionista.


  • PR Daily
  • Last, but certainly not least, if you aren’t received PR Daily in your inbox, are you even really a publicist? It’s good to know all the events happening in the world, but it’s even better to keep up with all the events happening in the PR world. PR Daily gives you news, advice, and opinions that relate to the PR industry.

Hopefully I have inspired you at least a smidge to go out and subscribe to a couple of these newsletters. After all, as a publicist, we are paid to know it all. Ciao!

Submitted by Kayla Agnello

Celebrating National Pretzel Day

These days, it seems there is a “national day” for everything. There’s National Oyster Day, National Strawberry Ice Cream Day, and even National Beer Day (a favorite of mine). But yesterday, April 26, was a special national day, it was National Pretzel Day and Culinary Dropout (CDO) in the Hard Rock Hotel & Casino tasked us with hosting a small “influencer” event in honor of the day and their famous Pretzels & Fondue dish.

Culinary Dropout is a cool, gastro-pub chain with quirky décor, live music and serves inventive cocktails and comfort food, and they are ALL about their pretzels and fondue. The team comprised of Brigitte, Morgan and I had three weeks to pull it all together.

First, the brainstorming session. Who are these influencers? What’s the atmosphere going to be like? What are we going to serve? The goal was to have a great time and create some buzz on national pretzel day about CDO and the best pretzels and fondue available in Vegas. The right mix of people is key, so we made sure to include a variety of social influencers including foodies and lifestyle bloggers, a few Vegas socialites, with a few members of the media peppered in.

We created an Evite in Canva as well as contacted a few people over social media platforms. Once the invite was sent out and the RSVP’s started rolling in, we followed up with info and directions to CDO on the property.

We ordered props that would help set the scene for the day including giant pretzel pool floats, big pretzel balloons, pretzel and chalkboard selfie props that we wrote various fun hashtags on for the influencers to use throughout the evening. #CDOVegas, #NationalPretzelDay, #ILovePretzels and #YUMMM, etc.

No great party is complete without great food and cocktails. We worked with the CDO team to set the menu which included Soft Pretzels & Provolone Fondue (obvi) skewered together in the shape of a hashtag, BBQ Pork Belly Nachos, Thai Chili Chicken Wings, and a bonus Charcuterie Board brought out by CDO Chef Joe Godell. To keep guests thirsts properly quenched the Dropout Classic Mule, Smashed Irishman and CDO’s Paperbag Special beer (who knows what you’re going to get?) was served.

No event in this modern day is complete without its own Snapchat geofilter, so three different filters were created for the day.

To set the mood, a band was out at the REHAB pool playing great rock and roll so we were able to enjoy some live music. The influencers were also able to partake in the backyard style game of cornhole while hanging out during the evening.

KDC and the Hard Rock Hotel both supported the event through their social media channels, and we were also able to land the famous pretzels and fondue in-studio on TV at KTNV “The Morning Blend” and KLAS “Las Vegas Now” earlier in the day.

Overall, the event was a success and I was so proud of Morgan and Brigitte for doing a stellar job. This was my kind of work event, an “only in Vegas” event with a celebrity tattoo artist, a professional BMX rider, a beatboxer and foodies among other walks of life. The best part is getting to network with those cool, interesting people, nosh on great food and drinks, in a chill tropical backyard setting, all in the name of pretzels. #DontGetItTwisted, we work hard, and if you’re having fun, it’s the best of both worlds!

Submitted by Rachel Henry

Nearly Five Years Later…

When I look back to when I was a child – let’s rewind to 10 years old – and was asked what I wanted to be when I grew up, I never uttered the words “public relations professional.” If I remember correctly, I said a veterinarian or a horse doctor. I loved animals and thought the career would be amazing. But in all honesty, it was mainly because I had absolutely no idea that there was such a thing as public relations.

Even in college I wasn’t entirely sure what a career in public relations meant, but I still went down that path. Now – fast forwarding a few years – after dabbling in event and sports marketing I look at my current role as a Senior Account Executive for Nevada’s largest PR agency. If someone would have told me that I would get to work in an industry that constantly challenges me to be creative, work on my writing (non-stop), offers unlimited networking possibilities and allows me to work with a variety of industries and clients that I love – I would have laughed.

I started working at Kirvin Doak Communications almost five years ago as an Account Coordinator – fresh out of graduate school with no real hands-on experience in the industry. The first few months went by and I jumped headfirst into everything and picked anyone’s brain that crossed my path. Now that I am here, I couldn’t imagine working in any other profession.

Instead of working with one field, I work in many different industries such as fine jewelry, music festivals, sporting events, rodeos, hotels, nonprofits, restaurants, gaming and more. I get to work on some of the most unique events from USA Sevens International Rugby Tournament, Electric Daisy Carnival Las Vegas, Life is Beautiful to grand openings for VSiN sports broadcasting studio with Brent Musburger, professional bowling tournament facilities and equestrian arenas – not to mention being part of the PR team for Tiffany & Co. I could go on but that isn’t what this blog is for.

It’s been an amazing 4.5 years in my career with KDC, packed with different experiences and projects that have helped developed me as a public relations professional. So for those of you that are wondering what it is that we do, here are the top five things I’ve learned so far:

  • There Is No Such Thing as a Typical Day –I am always being asked “What do you really do during your day” and “What does a typical day look like for you?” I ask myself that question multiple times as well. In short, there is no such thing as a typical day. Of course there are days you do the same activities like reading the headlines on the major media outlets in your area or looking for trending topics on social media, checking emails and clipping. But then there are the other days where you attend a client TV segment, assist with a grand opening, coordinate a ribbon cutting, draft endless pitches and pitch grids, write a statement, search high and low for editorial calendars, respond to countless emails or write a press release. Every day is different and that’s part of what makes this profession so interesting.
  • I Hope You Look Good In Hats… Because We Wear A Lot of Hats – Outside of my one baseball hat – I have never found a good hat for my head. I had to quickly learn that it doesn’t matter how you look in the hat – be prepared to wear it because it is a necessity in public relations. We wear a lot of hats in this industry. Yes, writing is a key component to being successful but there are so many different facets that help to enhance the plans we build and the strategies we execute. From event planning, media relations, social media or advertising – it is important to understand and be able to apply these areas to your plans in order to best serve your clients needs.
  • RESEARCH – The worst thing you could absolutely do when working with media is to NOT do your homework. You need to know every possible detail about the media – what they write about and what they have written about, who they write for… you could even go as far as hobbies and where they live (but don’t make it creepy). This is all very important information that you need to consider before you reach out to media – it could make or break your relationship and even a potentially really good opportunity for a client. Research not only allows media to take you seriously (and shows that you are invested) but also ensures that your pitch is getting to the right contact. 
  • Get Out There and Network – Being in Las Vegas there are so many different industries and networking opportunities. From day one it was drilled into my head that I need to get out there and connect with people, attend events and build relationships. It doesn’t matter if it is with someone in the media, casino industry or a non-profit organization. Almost five years later and this has still been the best advice my former boss could have given me. So now it’s my turn to say… step out of your comfort zone, introduce yourself and stand out. Growing professional relationships has made huge impact for me in this profession – I have made some amazing connections and relationships. In short, make your presence known because at the end of the day you are likely to work with that person in the near future. 
  • Never Be Afraid to Ask Questions – I would like to say the biggest thing I learned my first six months is how important it is to ask questions and take advantage of the knowledge your co-workers offer. At times I swore I bugged my superiors and colleagues with the endless amount of questions I asked. But if I didn’t ask – how else would I learn? I come into work each day and am surrounded by professionals that all bring different backgrounds and perspectives to the table. I would be an idiot if I didn’t’ take advantage of their knowledge. Each of us started in the same position, wide-eyed and no clue what we are doing and 9 chances out of 10 we have all faced similar – if not the same – challenges. Did I have the fear that I would make myself look stupid and unfit for my job – yes. But, it is important to ask questions, pick brains and seek help if you need it. At the end of the day, we are not just a firm but a team. Be a sponge, asking questions and seeking guidance is essential – not only for the good of the client or the company you work for but to help you develop into a professional.

While I only highlighted 5 things I have learned, I assure you the list could go on. Every day is a new day and brings new challenges, experiences and revelations. I am sure a lot of professions are like that but I am glad that my path took me this direction; otherwise, I would have missed out on so many of the amazing opportunities that I have been able to experience and be part of.  Last thought of the blog… I am curious to what I will say when I look back 5 years from now and what I may have to add to the list.


Submitted by Jaclyn Dadas

5 Resources for Non-designers to Create Beautiful Graphics

One of the best parts of working in public relations is you quickly become an expert in a little bit of everything. In my first six months at Kirvin Doak Communications I’ve had to learn about retail, NASCAR, construction, homelessness, hospitality, adult beverages and more. As a self-proclaimed life-long learner, I get excited coming into work knowing there is always something new to learn.

As the PR industry moves more into the digital space, it is becoming more apparent that professionals need to learn a little about graphic design. Whether you are managing social media for a client or drafting an infographic to accompany a press release, PR professionals should be able to create stunning visuals.

Here are five resources to turn any PR professional into a fake-it-til-you-make-it designer.


Cavna is my go-to anytime I need to design something, especially if it needs to be done quickly. It provides many templates from social media posts to invitations to flyers that make it simple for any non-designer to create graphics. Each template has pre-made designs where users can fill in information to make it customized for their needs. The platform is easy to navigate and offers many free elements, allowing professionals to create beautiful designs while staying in budget.


Unsplash offers free high-resolution photos licensed under Creative Commons Zero meaning you can use the photos, even for commercial purposes, without asking permission or providing attribution to the photographer. The photos are always beautiful and make for perfect backgrounds for a Monday Motivation social media post.

Color Hunt

One of the biggest challenges for non-designers is using color in a visually appealing way. Color Hunt takes the guesswork out of choosing colors by offering hundreds of color palettes. Just pick a palette you like and hover over each of the colors to find the Hex Color Code.

Bonus: Adobe Kuler

If you want to create your own color palette using an image, you can upload it to Adobe Kuler. It will guide you through choosing your own colors that are found in the photo.

Hubspot: Phone Photography 101

Hubspot provides great content to marketers through their blog. This post outlines how to take good photos with your phone. It is a great read for anyone looking to step up their photography game using tools they already have.

Buffer: 53 Design Terms and Tips to Level-Up

Buffer Social also provides marketers with tips on their blog. This post is a crash course in good design. It goes into detail of commonly used terms that can help non-designers learn more about how to create good images.

With these tools PR professionals can easily create graphics quickly that will impress clients.

Submitted by ~ Emily Ronquillo

How to Successfully #Adult as a Twenty-Something

Wouldn’t it be great if someone wrote a personalized how-to guide to surviving your twenties? Until that happens, here are a couple of helpful tips for transitioning from a twenty-something college student into a twenty-something adult.

Set Goals

Where do you want to be in one year, five years, or ten years? From finding financial stability to earning a promotion at work, writing down your personal goals plays a huge part in setting yourself up for success. It’s important to be realistic with your goals and make them manageable. (There goes my goal of getting married to Charlie Hunnam by the time I turn 25. A girl can dream, right?) Setting goals and crafting a clear vision will make it that much easier to get where you want to go, even if you’re not quite sure where that is.

Get Organized

Try out different methods of organization like color-coding or building lists. Altering your methods of organization can help improve your overall mental clarity. P.S. Please throw away that empty Starbucks cup on your desk and file that stack of papers you’ve been hanging onto for weeks. Physical organization is equally as important as mental organization.

Morning Routine

Along with exercise and getting enough sleep, having a morning routine is key to starting the day off right. Waking up at the same time, heading to spin class and making sure I get (at least one) cup of coffee before heading to work are all things that help keep me on track.

Live Well

It’s important to live well (or at least try to). – Never skip a workout. Drink a lot of water. Read as many books as possible. Eat well most of the time. Sleep when you need it. Do yoga and meditate. Socialize. Find a passion. Talk to your coworkers. Have fun. Even if you have to fake that stuff until you find a routine that works best for you, do it.

Accept Failure

Failure is an inevitable part of life. It’s important as a twenty-something to learn to accept and embrace failure. When you stretch outside your comfort zone, you’re growing and developing as a person. Failure is not a bad thing, as long as you learn from it.

To sum up my experience as an #adultish twenty-something – it’s 70% getting it completely wrong, 30% getting it right and ALWAYS giving it 100% effort.



The Beginner’s Guide to Getting What You Want

I should probably put a disclaimer here; I may not be a complete beginner at getting what I want. I am an only child, after all. This is, however, the first year of my life that I feel even remotely qualified to be giving advice on achieving things in a professional capacity.  I accomplished a lot in 2016 that I’m quite proud of. So please, read on for some random, completely unsolicited advice on getting what you want, as told by someone who just recently got good at it.

On Moving

Moving: hard? Yes. Fun? Also yes. If there’s one thing I’m good at, It’s moving (not at moving heavy objects, though, I’m very weak). I’ve moved across the country twice and across the continent once. Up until 2014 I prided myself on being able to fit everything I owned into my Hyundai Santa Fe, including a seventy pound German Shepherd. I’ve been meaning to look into my ancestry for nomadic bloodlines, but I digress. Don’t be afraid to move. Everyone needs to experience life in a brand new place at least once. Maybe you’ll hate that brand new place and move back, but the experience will give you a new perspective. Moving eight million times has given me great peace of mind in knowing that Las Vegas is where I’m supposed to be. Moral of the story: Don’t get stuck. If you don’t like where you’re at, move. Find your happy place.









On Stress

Stress isn’t fun, but it seems to be highly correlated with success. For the first half of 2016, I found myself taking a full college course load while planning a cross country move, searching for apartments, searching for internships, making sure I was on track to graduate after said internship, oh and PLANNING A WEDDING. I worked myself into a stress frenzy after applying to each internship, imagining how each one could take my life and career down a completely different path (and developed a deep, deep hatred of cover letters).  Cut to summer 2016, while I worked an 8-4 internship, served on nights and weekends (Shout-out LVCVA and Pub 365!), applied for jobs, all while still planning that darn wedding! Cut to 2017, I am happily married and graduated, working a job I love in a city that I love. These days the stress I experience is of the healthy variety induced by responsibilities in work and life.  Moral of the Story: Overwhelming stress means you’re on the way to getting where you want to go. Embrace it, knowing that it means success is on the horizon.









(Is she cheering because she got just married, or because she’s done wedding planning? It’s hard to say.)

On Age

Did I think I was going to get married at 23 years old? Absolutely not. I watched way too much “Sex and the City” growing up to even fathom that finding a healthy, happy relationship could be accomplished at a young age. No sir, my twenties were surely going to be filled with a series of complicated relationships, and my apartment was definitley going to have a fire escape.  I managed to wrap my head around settling down at a young age, but it was oddly hard for strangers and acquaintances to do the same. I heard opinions from plenty of people that barely knew me that I was too young to get married. Try to tell me I’m not mature enough to own a house by 24, I dare ya. Moral of the story: Don’t listen to people who are only inserting their opinions because they want you to conform to the status quo. Go with your gut, even if it’s taking you down a slightly unconventional route (although it could be argued that marriage and home ownership are the most conventional routes one could possibly go down).







(My favorite family picture)

On Underestimating Females

DO NOT DO THIS UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES. Females are powerful and stubborn yet nurturing creatures. You want them on your side. I feel incredibly lucky to have ended up working in an industry dominated by females I admire, and I’m only here because the females in my life cared enough to help me get ahead. Moral of the Story: #GirlPower.

The End?

I wish I had more chapters to add to this Beginner’s Guide, but this is solely based on my experience from the past year or so. To recap: Move across the country or across the world for a fresh perspective; Embrace stress; do NOT let acquaintances or society dictate how and when you should commit to something; and don’t underestimate the power of the Sisterhood.  I suppose it will be different for everyone, but keep these principles in mind, add your own, and you’ll be well on your way to living a lavish Mariah Carey-esque lifestyle that entails stairclimbing in stilettos and calling people “lambs” (if that’s what you’re into.)

~submitted by Kelsey Cooper